Making friends.

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Nine days until we get the keys to our new home here in HK. I'm counting down because we have been living out of a suitcase since starting doing up the old place in the UK, which is quite a long time really. 


I'm looking forward to having our shipped items delivered to us, so we have some homely bits around to make us feel settled. I'm more so looking forward to our little Miss Molly being delivered! She's been happy staying at Furrball Cattery though, we visit her every Sunday and she always seems her usual playful self. Our time living in the city is drawing to a close (thank god, city life is hard work with a bambino), beach living beckons - and I just hope I make some nice friends. I am not good at making friends anymore. Not sure why, I think it's because I really suck at making small talk. Get me into a conversation about something I am passionate about, and I'm firing on all social cylinders, but I generally suck arse at the small talk thing. I tend to embarrass myself by saying something really stoopid. Or slur my words like I am drunk (or doing a very good impression of Kerry Katona pre sober days). But then when I am around the right people, I don't suffer any of the above at all. 


So we shall see, I'll either meet the right people and feel comfortable, or I'll meet nice people and struggle to communicate like a normal human being.


I really hope it's not the latter.

Comments

naomi said…
Ah Friends... The one thing that gets me most about moving country is the lack thereof.

I find it difficult to even start to make friends. How do you start that all over again without sounding like a desperate loner? It's hard. But you have a baby. And he is BOUND to give you something in common with other women. Mums always make friends with other mums. You'll be going to coffee mornings & play dates in no time.
xo
Hannah said…
Agree... Your lovely William will make the friends for you!

Dumb question though; do the people in Hong Kong speak English? or have you been learning another language aswell!

xxx
kates said…
I think that the older we get the harder it is to make friends. Men, they have no problem - they usually have instant common ground (any sport). Women, not so much...

But I definitely agree re: mums making friends with other mums!! You will be absolutely fine, I'm sure

xoxo
Jen Loves Joy said…
It IS much easier with a baby, having that common ground helps. Everyone speaks english so at least I don't have that language barrier issue to contend with either!

I miss my old friends heaps at the moment.

Thank god for blog land x
Hannah said…
http://d30opm7hsgivgh.cloudfront.net/upload/222294931576820848_8CkUXOwr_c.jpg

Found this on pinterest, Might come in useful for when you get molly back! it looks like her... should you be worried?
Hannah said…
http://pinterest.com/pin/352988886/
Jen Loves Joy said…
Oh my god Hannah, ALL of the above!! (except bringing in dead animals, Molly wouldn't know what to do if a pigeon came up and twatted her round the head with a dead frog) haha x

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